I got some mail the other day, but if you were to see the name on it, you may not have thought it was mine. It highlighted a cultural difference between here in Tanzania and where I am from in America.
In America, generally a person is given a first and middle name when they are born, and then they receive their last name (or surname) by virtue of the fact that it is the father’s family name. In my case, I was given the names “Daniel Howard,” and I received the last name “Eads” because it is my father’s family name.
In Tanzania, it is different. Generally, a person will have three names (like I do), but a child is given one name at birth. His second name is the name of his father, and his third name (or last name) is the name of his paternal grandfather (and therefore the name of the clan). This difference in name-giving can cause some confusion at times.
My name is Daniel Howard Eads, but if I were called according to the customs here, my name would be Daniel William Wendell, and my son would be called Silas Daniel William, and so on. Typically, a person is called by his name and the name of his father, and only in more formal situations would someone’s clan name (or the name of their grandfather be used).
So this is the reason that I knew that the mail addressed to “Daniel Howard” was indeed mine.
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